The QuINtessential Roles of The MotHER
A Child IS pre-equipped or INborn with the concept of The MotHER. The MotHER IS a physical pre-condition for a Child.
There are four quintessential roles and therefore functions of The MotHER / of MotHERINg.
Those four roles and functions BEINg: MotHER as NURTURER (the function BEINg nurturance / nurturINg), MoHER as PROTECTOR (the function BEINg protection / protectINg), MotHER as EMPOWER-OR (the function BEINg emPowerment / emPowerINg) and MotHER as INITIATOR (the function BEINg INitiation / INitiatINg).
IN my personal Truth system:
> a fragmentation can occur IN any of them, and multiple at the same time (and often does for many Women)
> they are INterconnected, just like everythINg IS
> All four of these roles and functions have BEen disabled BEcause OF THE MOTHER WOUND IN operation withIN the collective unconscious / consciousness
> so many Women DOUBT THEIR ABILITY TO BE “GOOD MOTHERS” BEcause their MotHER wasn’t able to fulfill HER roles and functions as a MotHER (whether it was One of these roles or functions, or ALL of them)
> even One of these roles and functions not BEINg fulfilled IS enough to disorient and destabilize a WOMAN IN the World henceforward
> by LivINg through their Mother WOUND Women are not able to LIVE OUT THEIR MOTHER WISDOM
The first of the four roles of the MotHER IS nurturer, the function BEINg nurturance / nurturINg. That IS, the givINg of care, Love, nourishment and connection that allows for the continuation of Life, which encompasses meetINg the wide range of physical, physiological and emoceanal needs a child has IN order to grow and develop properly. This role and this function IS often symbolized by the MotHER’s Breastmilk which keeps the Baby aLive and WELL … as WELL as the Mother’s touch and EMBRACE).
A Child IS pre-equipped or INborn with the concept of The MotHER. The MotHER IS a physical pre-condition for a Child.
If you did not receive sufficient nurturing IN Childhood, as an adult you may struggle with HEALTHY and nourished attachment, regulatINg and soothINg yourSelf IN times of stress, chaos and / or adversity, digestive dis-ease, immunological dis-ease, and you may generally operate from the BElief that you are NOT PROVIDED FOR IN THIS LIFE.
Many Women for example, WEre taught that they need to leave their Baby’s IN their cribs to cry so that they could learn how to soothe and regulate themSelves. This could not BE further from the Truth … and Truthfully it baffles me that thIS has BEen promoted as PROPER CARE for a completely dependent BEINg who relies on their MotHER for survival IN every sense of the Word. It feels and IS fundamentally SO counterINtuitive. Full grown adults co-sleep for the vast majority of their Lives … yet Babys / INfants / Children are made wrong for doINg so? That’s reaaaaaaally somethINg to sit IN and BE with.
There are three really Powerful quotes from Anthony Stevens that I Desire to share with you All Here.
The first BEINg:
“Just as the SeedlINg, newly ejected from its pod, enters the world IN the assurance that it Will contain Soil, so the INfant, expelled from the Womb, approaches Life on the assumption that it Will provide a MotHER; for the MotHER IS to the Child what ‘Mother EARTh’ IS to the Seed: without Her it would perish.”
The second BEINg:
“This primary need to BE cuddled, when fully satisfied forms the foundation of the Child’s developINg “basic Trust” and it IS a need which persists INto adulthood. When held, One experiences security, protection and comfort; holdINg IS a gesture which has great therapeutic potency.”
The third BEINg:
“The need for physical contact IS, therefore, somethINg which goes beyond mere sexuality. THere IS IN All Mammals - especially IN Mammalian INfants — an appetitive need for the establishment of contact, for the maintenance of contact, and for the restoration of contact once it’s lost. ThIS IS the very essence of the attachment bond; and the Purpose of thIS fundamental BEhaviour system IS clear: survival.”
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